The Sex Files
Men's Fitness (US)|September 2017

Our experts answer your most intimate questions—no holds barred

Paul M., Ontario, Canada
The Sex Files

My wife and I have been ma r three years, and the sex is good,but I wouldn’t mind spicing it up a little. Any ideaa aren’t too kinky?

A The best way to kick sex up a notch: Start early. If you want to have sex on Saturday, start on Wednesday.

I’m referring to “aural” sex: your words. But don’t start talking porn with her; use your inside voice. Whisper in her ear. Tell her she’s beautiful, that you love her soft skin and can’t wait to see her naked this weekend. Let her know what turns you on about her and the fantasies you have about what you’ll do when you’re in bed.

Create erotic anticipation using her No. 1 erogenous zone—her imagination. The buildup will be worth it. DR. TAMMY

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