Master Small Talk
Cosmopolitan - South Africa|Feb 2017

Awkward high-school reunions and OTT relatives can make parties more scary than fun. Our chat-up-anyone cheat sheet takes the stress out of mingling. Do this when…

Jessica Migala
Master Small Talk

You’re invited to a friend’s party but know no-one.

Being introverted is no reason to be a stage-five clinger on the host. Scan the room for someone who’s also alone. Open with: ‘What’s your connection to this party?’ Follow with something like: ‘What keeps you busy?’ (It’s a better question than ‘What do you do?’ They might have just been retrenched.)

Someone asks, ‘What’s new?’ – and you freeze up.

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