Relationship Redo
Girls' Life magazine|April/May 2017

TEMPTED TO GET BACK TOGETHER WITH YOUR EX? REUNITE THE RIGHT WAY…

Lisa Mulcahy
Relationship Redo

GET REAL

Sure, you may look back at the time spent with your BF and hear nothing but birds chirping and violins playing. Your first kiss in the rain! The adorable way he laughed at even your lamest jokes! These magical moments may send you sprinting back, stat. But think about it: Were things really that rosy? Probably not. If everything was so darn perfect, chances are you’d still be together.

So before you begin dreaming up that together-again date, recall the reasons you broke up in the first place. Was he always late? Blew off your birthday? Constantly criticized you? Be realistic. If you didn’t have the patience to put up with whatever made you batty the first time around, chances are you won’t again.

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