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Love advice from our guy guru, Logan Hill

- Logan Hill

I’m going to my boyfriend’s parents’ house for Thanksgiving. Any tips to make sure my first visit goes smoothly?

A_ Trust your boyfriend to help you make a great first impression. Ask him for some pointers, like “What house gift should I bring for your mom?” or “What dessert should I make for your dad?” Then once you’re there, be respectful, kind…and yourself. If there are any awkward moments, give his parents the benefit of the doubt. Weird vibes may not be about you.

Do you think my hubby actually cares what type of undies I wear to bed?

A_ Odds are, your husband is cool with your wearing plain regulars most of the time. He knows he’s in a real marriage, not some glamorous movie. But will he love it when you hop between the sheets in a cheeky Brazilian thong? Will he perk up when he sees you strut into the room in new lace bottoms? Hell, yes. Your husband doesn’t expect you to linger in lingerie all the time, but when you do, he will definitely appreciate the effort.

So many dudes on dating apps say they’re entrepreneurs or “self employed.” Is this just code for “jobless”?