He’s never going to tell you it bugs him. But that doesn’t mean he won’t give you attitude about it.
Picture this. You tell your boyfriend that you’re catching up with a close male friend over coffee tomorrow afternoon. That’s fine, he says. But hang on. What was that edge in his voice? Did he not quite meet your eye when he said that? And why did he suddenly go cool on you? After all, he did say it was okay with him, right?
Wrong. The thing is, he doesn’t want to be that uncool guy who controls who his partner’s friends are, and who she gets to see. But that doesn’t mean he likes you spending quality one-on-ones with another dude – no matter how platonic the relationship. “We don’t want people to think we’re possessive and insecure,” says Herman*. “But it doesn’t mean we’re not.” And of course, it’s about sizing up the competition. “We don’t have an issue with you meeting your guy friends, but certain types will raise alarm bells,” he adds.
This story is from the April 2018 edition of Her World Singapore.
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