How To Manage An Oversharing Boss (And Still Keep Your Job)
Her World Singapore|February 2018

The millennial boss is chill and wants to be your friend. That’s cool. But how do you deal when she just doesn’t get that she’s overstepping her boundaries?

Hoe I Yune
How To Manage An Oversharing Boss (And Still Keep Your Job)

THE NO-FILTER BOSS

It’s a problem when your boss turns to you to blow off steam. “My direct supervisor casually brought up her dissatisfaction with one of my peers, and implied he should get another job because he was ill suited for his current role,” says 26-year old accountant Jennifer*. “I smiled politely, but remained silent. I guess she took that as a sign to continue, because she then dissed another colleague.”

Draw the Line: It’s easy to get drawn into the discussion. Don’t. She’s still your superior. If she doesn’t remember that, you have to. Don’t feed her rant, says Terence Chiew, author and career coach with www.careerladder. sg, adding that you should shut her down by changing the topic.

THE CAN’T-TAKE- NO-FOR-AN- ANSWER BOSS

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