While it demands patience and planning, a long-distance relationship doesn’t have to be so hard, finds Paritha Patel.
Relying mainly on Skype to keep your romance chugging along isn’t easy, but when has the path to lasting love ever been smooth. And a long-distance relationship takes more work than usual. “My boyfriend works in the US and I am in Pune,” says Bhakti Ganatra, 27, who has been in a long-distance relationship for five years now. “I would love to move to the US and be with him, but getting a visa is an issue.” Ganatra wants to get married, but financially, they’re just not ready yet. As she sees it, “No one wants to be in a long-distance relationship. But we make the best of the situation.” Here’s how you can too.
MAKE A DATE
When you’re trying to make a long-distance relationship work, it’s important to have goals to work towards and look forward to. For instance, applying for jobs in the other person’s city or taking a vacation together will close the distance a little. Sunita Paudwal*, a 26-year-old PhD student says, “My boyfriend went to the UK for a year-long programme, but he planned to stay on if he got a job. We weren’t sure whether he’d return after a year. What made the uncertainly bearable was planning my visit during his Easter break.” Keeping the other person involved in your daily highs and lows is important too and keeps you connected.
DON’T JUMP
This story is from the March 03 2017 edition of Femina.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 8,500+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber ? Sign In
This story is from the March 03 2017 edition of Femina.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 8,500+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber? Sign In
EAT IN A TROPICAL PARADISE
Nusa, Bengaluru's latest culinary offering, promises an escape from the ordinary
FROM THE ARTISAN TO YOU
Mantra, a women's designer clothing brand from Kerala, comes to Chennai
A BOND BEYOND COMPANIONSHIP
Having a pet in their lives can offer children a wealth of valuable life lessons. Here are some essential insights that can unfold from this unique experience, writes
MAX OUT YOUR TIME IN MEGHALAYA
Nestled in northeastern India, Meghalaya, known as the Abode of Clouds, is a hidden gem waiting to be explored
LOUNGE IN JOY
DRUNKEN TEDDY is the newest place in Kolkata with a gourmet menu and endless options to choose from
REVIVE THE ROMANCE
Ravina M Sachdev shares ways to get your relationship out of the rut
LIFE IN BLACK & WHITE
Discover life lessons from the chessboard.
GIFT YOURSELF RADIANCE
Mrunal Behare lists easy beauty tips to follow for a beautiful you
LIVING IN OR LEAVING
If you must end a live-in in a relationship, do it with consideration and respect.
SEEKING PATIENCE
Prachi Rijwani has strategies to help you foster personal growth