Relationships nowadays are a passing fad. People get bored of a relationship as quickly as they get into one. It has become a herd mentality and a big requirement for the social media-obsessed life that we are living. Keeping other people’s emotions first can be hard sometimes. Making time for each other and seeking ways to make each other happy isn’t an easy task. You are expected to prioritise the other person more than anyone else while all this seems to be insignificant to others head.
People today give up so easily on relationships because they tend to live by the phrase “If it's meant to be, it’ll come naturally.” It won’t. You need to fight for things. The honeymoon phase will end. Your partner will write you off. Your relationship and time with the person won’t be as exciting as it was when you first entered the relationship.
A lot of people these days think those things should never end and that’s why relationships never last. They keep searching for ‘the one’ thinking this person is going to come into their life being everything they've ever wanted and they’ll never have issues with each other. People are no longer willing to work on and build relationships stronger. In a relationship, one has to act as the mature one, so as to make things work. So, why not you ladies? You obviously don’t want to lose your partner just because of some stupid argument. One of you has to go there and initiate the conversation. You can be the bigger person here by keeping your ego aside and going out there to solve the conflict.
This story is from the January 2020 edition of Woman's Era.
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