Syrian Refugees Speak of the Homes and Lives They Left Behind
Forbes India|January 22, 2016

Though now safely ensconced in Berlin’s bright lights and Christmas carols, Syrian refugees speak wistfully of their homes and lives left behind, possibly forever.

Vaishali Dinakaran
Syrian Refugees Speak of the Homes and Lives They Left Behind

Hiraeth: Homesickness for a place you cannot return to or that never was.

A cold wind blows across Berlin. It makes the fir trees, all decorated with Christmas baubles, sway back and forth gently. The people walking through the Weihnachtsmarkt, or Christmas Market, in Alexanderplatz clutch their jackets closer, tighten the mufflers around their necks, and pull their woolen caps down over their ears. The sound of carols and singing and laughter is intermittently interrupted by the chattering of teeth. It isn’t Berlin’s coldest winter there are no snowflakes drifting down from the skies to coat the top of the Fernsehturm or caress the backs of the galloping stone horses atop the Brandenburg Gate but it is cold enough. Both literally and metaphorically. For some more so than the others.

“The day my uncles and aunts and cousins back in Syria begin to think of hope, that is the day, believe me, I will be happy.”

We’re sitting in a small cafe nestled in the south of Berlin. It’s 8 am and the sun has decided to briefly peek out from behind ominous grey clouds. It does little to warm us, for the cafe door is open, and the menacing wind reaches in there too. To restore some feeling in my fingers, I hold on to a cup of strong coffee. The young man sitting across the table has been too busy talking to me of Syria to sip from the glass of hot chocolate he’s ordered. It’s far from hot now; in fact, it’s cold. Just like everything else. His feeling of Christmas cheer seems to have faded while speaking to me. I’ve asked too many questions, brought up too many memories. There have been wry smiles; queries, the answers to which are impossible; and long periods of silence. Like the one that follows after he makes this statement about hope. We both look at the table for a long time before he begins to speak again.

This story is from the January 22, 2016 edition of Forbes India.

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