The thing I fear most about getting older is living with regret. I have grandparents in their nineties, and what I most admire about them is they’ve grabbed opportunities to travel everywhere, experience anything, and take risks. They can look back and think, “We didn’t waste a second.”
At 41, I’m fearful of taking risks, but it’s easy to end up in a state of paralysis, then consume a bottle of Prosecco and a bag of chips in a fit of self-loathing. A good way to channel your more reckless, youthful energy is to enjoy things you loved when you were younger. This is what made me write a book about Dirty Dancing. I was obsessed with the film when I was 11, and now I see the lessons it gave me, I love it more.
Here’s what Dirty Dancing has taught me about seizing every opportunity – and not being scared.
1 If you get the opportunity to learn something new, always say ‘Yes’
One of the most thrilling things about the character of Baby Houseman (Jennifer Grey), the 17-year-old girl at the centre of Dirty Dancing, is that she isn’t afraid to grab an opportunity with both hands. She isn’t afraid to grab dance instructor Johnny Castle (Patrick Swayze) with both hands either, but surely she deserves some good times after all the blood, sweat and tears she has put in.
Baby has to learn that mambo in five days flat to cover for dancer Penny, and then perform it live. But she doesn’t hesitate – she just says yes.
Learning a new skill can never be a bad decision, and it can lead to all kinds of exciting experiences. Don’t worry about looking ridiculous. Just say yes.
2 Go with your gut
This story is from the June 2020 edition of woman & home South Africa.
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