Got A Relationship Problem? Ask Jay
Her World Singapore|September 2020
Got a relationship problem? Jason Godfrey, our resident guy expert, is here to help.
Jason Godfrey
Got A Relationship Problem? Ask Jay

I’m starting to get serious with a guy I’ve met online. Am I cheating on him if I continue to chat with other guys on dating apps? I want to be sure he’s really the one, in case I find someone better.

The roving dude in me says, of course it’s not cheating to keep on “Tindering”. Who knows, he could be doing the same (#justsaying). Me thinks what’s more worrying for you is that you think you can find someone better. Ahh.. here’s where the problem lies. While you’re developing a relationship with a guy, you’re also getting to know other guys. You’re actually developing more than one relationship at the same time, and someone could get hurt in the end. Perhaps it’s better to get serious with only one guy at a time.

This story is from the September 2020 edition of Her World Singapore.

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