No couple’s sex life stays the same as it was in the early days, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still feel desirable. Want to spice things up again? Learning how to seduce your own husband could be key. ‘Seduction is about more than pumping out Barry White and wearing stockings – although those things can help,’ says Sammi Cole, sex and relationship expert at Lovehoney. ‘You have to make the thought of sex with you the most appealing thing in the world. And when you’ve been with someone for a long time, that means reminding them of how much you still desire them, and what it is about you that they fell in love with.’ Want to give it a try? Here’s how…
1 BECOME A DETECTIVE
First rule of seduction? In the words of the Spice Girls, you have to know what your partner wants. What they really, really want. ‘Seduction has to do with guiding someone into what they secretly wish they could give themselves,’ says sexual wellness expert Megwyn White, who works with Satisfyer. ‘You have to be a bit of a detective to figure out what this is, and then figure out how you can bring their fantasies to life.’ And if your partner is reluctant to open up? Don’t rush. ‘Create a space for communication.’
2 FORGET SEXY LINGERIE
This story is from the March 2020 edition of Woman & Home Feel Good You.
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