Being the only woman on a non-technical team, providing customer support to software developers, was like immersion therapy for internalised misogyny. I liked men – I had a boyfriend. I had a brother. But men were everywhere: the customers, my teammates, my boss, his boss. I was always fixing things for them, tiptoeing around their vanities, cheering them up. Affirming, dodging, confiding, collaborating. Advocating for their career advancement; ordering them pizza. My job had placed me, a self-identified feminist, in a position of ceaseless, professionalised deference to the male ego.
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