Primero me gustaría explicar la razón del título: generalmente la culpa de las inseguridades femeninas recae en los machos cuando de estrías, caderas grandes o flacidez se trata, pero no, es responsabilidad de las mujeres, y si en este momento comenzaste a sentir un odio hacia mí −pues soy hombre−, debo decirte que muy en el fondo sabes de lo que estoy hablando.
Los chicos heterosexuales cuando ven a una mujer desnuda frente a ellos son los más agradecidos; asimismo, quienes reconocen que están próximos a tener una relación consensuada −y realmente saben que será algo increíblemente bueno− no juzgarán tus estrías, si tus caderas son más anchas o si tienes un barro en la espalda, así que las inseguridades vienen de adentro o de tu entorno femenino.
La razón de criticar entre mujeres
Una teoría del feminismo indica que las mujeres se encuentran obsesionadas con el físico y forma de comportarse debido a que el patriarcado ha decidido controlarlas, y te doy un ejemplo: si estás pensado cuál es tu peso, no te preocuparás por pasar un examen o pedir un ascenso, ya que en muchas mentes femeninas la “verdad” es que si son flacas y guapas, conseguirán lo que quieren. Eso es un grave error, tus éxitos no deben ser consecuencia de tu talla o belleza, sino de tu capacidad por lograr tus metas esforzándote más cada día, pero si en tu trabajo te dicen que no es así, entonces corre, huye de ese lugar a otro donde sí te valoren como profesional.
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