IT FEELS as though you’re trapped in limbo. As the days of isolation stretch into weeks, you yearn to do all those things you used to take for granted – like going for coffee with friends and walking in the park.
You try to stay positive, but sometimes it’s hard not to feel despondent.
Will life ever return to normal? And within this endless whirl of worry, there’s also the fear that you or your loved ones could fall prey to the deadly virus wreaking havoc across the world.
If there’s one person who understands this wild roller coaster ride of emotions it’s Monique Strydom.
Two decades ago, on 23 April 2000, she and her now ex-husband, Callie, were taken hostage by a terrorist group while they were on a diving holiday on the Malaysian island of Sipadan and taken by boat to the remote island of Jolo in the Phillipines.
For 127 desperate days the Strydoms had to survive on tiny portions of rice, drink rainwater to quench their thirst and deal with being cooped up in a bamboo hut in the depths of the jungle while Abu Sayyaf militants, armed with machine guns and machetes, stood watch over them.
The weeks stretched into months as they, along with 19 other hostages, waited to be rescued, clutching at glimmers of hope that were so often dashed.
Twenty years on, Monique (56) thought she’d put all of this behind her – but when President Cyril Ramaphosa announced the Co vid-19 lockdown was being extended it brought back many memories.
Now, chatting to us from her home in Cape Town via Skype, she’s just a face on a screen – just like she was in 2000 in the videos her captors released of her and Callie.
This story is from the 30 April 2020 edition of YOU South Africa.
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