Now, here are some of the boundaries that you must draw across your relationship. Know them to build a happy relationship.
Boundaries That You Set in A Relationship
1. Expectations - They Eat Up Love
When someone loves you more than anything, you may tend to raise your expectations. What kind of expectations a couple tend to have?
To take the domination, to be patient, tolerate the mood swings and some of the common things.
Some day, it hurts you both. Always keeping the expectations and making them possible for you is not love. It is just taking advantage of someone’s goodness.
The kindness, respect and love that a couple gets from each other will lasts no longer with high expectations. The one who is working for others expectations will get out the tolerance level.
It is also like testing patience by expecting too much. So, there must be boundaries for expectations when it comes to tolerance, difficulty and domination as well.
2. Sexual behaviour - Consider wish and will
Sex and intimacy helps in feeling attached and connected. It is the best way to express even being speechless. All this is only when you behave within the boundaries.
How can you say that sexual behaviour of one is boundary less or unacceptable? Though you are in love- you can easily say when it is uneasy. When you the person forcing for sex against the wish or expressing sexual feelings violently. Until the the partner is uncomfortable, hurt it is unacceptable- in simple words.
It is only to make love when you are in love but not to cross the boundaries which is hurtful.
3. Past stories - Don’t be an open book
Many of the couple in love relationship become an open book. I understand the importance of transparency but not don’t let it affect your relationship.
The closeness that you both have will let you share every small bit of your past. But the same bits ruin your present when you have clashes. Again it doesn’t mean, you are keeping secrets. It is just means that everything comes in front eventually when.
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