Once you get over the fact that you couldn't possibly be old enough to be a granny, who doesn't relish the thought of playing with tiny versions of your now grown-up children? Spotting familiar traits, enjoying cuddles and forging that special relationship can be a delight.
But today, at least five million grandparents in the UK are caring for their grandchildren on a regular basis. The rising cost of living and an expectation that grandparents will play a greater role in the lives of their grandchildren means nearly 40% of grandparents are child carers, says Age UK.
A major factor is that UK childcare costs are sky-high. A report by the charity Pregnant Then Screwed has warned that the financial burden of childcare leaves four in 10 parents saying they often have to choose between paying for childcare or household essentials. Increased costs also mean many care providers are putting up their charges, with increases of nearly 6% over the past year, while availability of places has fallen.
Privilege or pressure?
Some grandparents feel it's a privilege to have the little ones every week. They say it keeps them fit and healthy and, as the grandchildren get older, keeps them up to date with new trends and technology.
Others say 'now' is finally their moment to be a bit more selfish. After decades spent raising their own kids, going out to work and caring for elderly parents, they want to be beholden to no one. Of course, they want to spend time with their grandchildren - but on their terms. Some even say there is a sense of entitlement from the younger generation who assume that they will take on the responsibilities, and that their kids think their life and free time are of less importance.
'I WANT TO BE A GRANDMOTHER, NOT A CHILDMINDER'
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