The Orange Peel Theory
Her World Singapore|May 2024
Would you break up with your partner over peeled fruit? This latest social media trend might just be the unlikely dealbreaker.
Cheryl Lai-Lim
The Orange Peel Theory

Forget MBTI tests or compatible horoscopes; there's a new way to test if your love is true: All you need is an orange.

While it might sound unorthodox, the idea behind the viral "orange peel theory" is rather straightforward: If your partner peels an orange for you with care, it's a sign of genuine love.

But if they refuse, it suggests their love might not be sincere. This informal test first started on social media platform Tiktok, and has since become widespread, especially among heterosexual couples.

At its core, the orange peel theory is about acts of service. It suggests that a partner's willingness to perform small and seemingly insignificant acts of service indicates a healthy relationship.

"If someone asks you to peel their orange you might think, 'They're perfectly capable of doing that themselves, that's not a big deal," said Tiktoker @neanotmia in a breakdown of the trend. "It might not literally be about peeling the orange. They're asking you for a small favour to see your reaction, to see if later they can ask you for bigger favours. How are you going to make them feel when they ask you for that help?"

PEELING BACK THE LAYERS

While seemingly trivial, some believe that the act of peeling an orange symbolises a partner's willingness to perform small gestures of kindness and support, which are believed to reflect the underlying dynamics of the relationship.

This story is from the May 2024 edition of Her World Singapore.

Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 8,500+ magazines and newspapers.

This story is from the May 2024 edition of Her World Singapore.

Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 8,500+ magazines and newspapers.

MORE STORIES FROM HER WORLD SINGAPOREView All
Would You Swipe Right On Feminism?
Her World Singapore

Would You Swipe Right On Feminism?

In the debut instalment of this new opinion column, a single Singaporean declares that in her search for a long-term partner, there's nothing more attractive than a man who embraces gender equality.

time-read
8 mins  |
May 2024
The Orange Peel Theory
Her World Singapore

The Orange Peel Theory

Would you break up with your partner over peeled fruit? This latest social media trend might just be the unlikely dealbreaker.

time-read
4 mins  |
May 2024
You Shouldn't Feel Guilty About Taking A Vacation
Her World Singapore

You Shouldn't Feel Guilty About Taking A Vacation

Even though you've booked that much-needed vacation, you might find yourself hesitant to take the time off. How do you address the guilt that may be weighing you down, and actually enjoy your holiday?

time-read
8 mins  |
May 2024
Let Your Emotions Go
Her World Singapore

Let Your Emotions Go

Have a flaky friend who always bails on plans? Here's how you can share how you feel while addressing the situation effectively.

time-read
1 min  |
May 2024
How Much Is Family Planning Actually Costing You?
Her World Singapore

How Much Is Family Planning Actually Costing You?

It's always prudent to be financially sound and savvy - especially if you're planning to start a family. Find out how you and your partner can map out a financial plan that is realistic, based on advice from parents and experts.

time-read
8 mins  |
May 2024
Do You Feel Guilty About Taking Leave?
Her World Singapore

Do You Feel Guilty About Taking Leave?

We ask the Her World team, as well as readers, if they can truly unplug from work during a vacation.

time-read
2 mins  |
May 2024
Air-Dry Or Blow-Dry - Which Is Worse For Your Mane?
Her World Singapore

Air-Dry Or Blow-Dry - Which Is Worse For Your Mane?

Haircare experts share their advice.

time-read
2 mins  |
May 2024
How Can I Use Artificial Intelligence (AI) More Effectively At Work?
Her World Singapore

How Can I Use Artificial Intelligence (AI) More Effectively At Work?

Govtech engagement manager Nicole Lim answers.

time-read
2 mins  |
May 2024
BACK TO BOLD
Her World Singapore

BACK TO BOLD

Say goodbye to low-key and hello to decadence with over-the-top makeup trends. Here's why maximalist beauty is taking over.

time-read
3 mins  |
May 2024
THE CORTISOL CONNECTION
Her World Singapore

THE CORTISOL CONNECTION

Is it possible to undo the ravages of stress while living in a fast-paced world? We dive into how our levels of cortisol - our body's primary stress hormone - can be regulated, and ways to manage its effects.

time-read
6 mins  |
May 2024