Play To Win!

There’s some similarity to traversing a cards game and wooing women. Both require knowledge, observation and a high degree of charm. Here’s how to win at both, without coming across as a total d-bag... or, worse, a guy who has no game.

- Madhuri Banerjee

SO THE FESTIVAL SEASON IS UPON US AND there will be many parties to attend. Apart from the alcohol and food, the card tables beckon. As do all the pretty ladies, dressed in their ethnic finery and ready to mingle. Here are some ideas on how to win with the woman you desire at these parties.

EVERY HAND’S A WINNER

Money attracts money. When you don’t have enough money, you’ll play scared. And when you’re scared to make a bet or play another round, you might just lose the hand you think you have a chance to win. Most women are attracted to the confident player who doesn’t wince when he loses. They know he has enough to keep them happy with things later. So, even if you attend one great party with the most beautiful ladies there, play with poise, calmness and great assurance. You might not always be lucky with the hand, but you’ll be more attuned to the ladies. But, be careful: In the game of life, don’t take flings at face value—each of these ladies deserves careful attention that’s more or less poker face-free.

KNOW WHEN TO WALK AWAY